Life is full of unknowns. At times, we may look to the future, and it may seem impossible for us to reach our dreams. The struggles that we face may seem insurmountable. When we are truly pursuing our dreams, we are closer to the struggle, we are in the fight as it were, and so it is harder to see beyond it and see our dream. Take a wall for example. Say that this wall is seven feet tall and you are six feet tall. If you stand back from this wall, you can see many things that are on the other side of the wall. At the same time though, if you move in closer to the wall so that you are face to face with the wall, many of the things that you could see when you were standing back from the wall, are no longer visible. Have the things that you could see before changed or disappeared? Has the wall gotten any taller? No, in fact, they have not changed at all, you have changed. By changing your position, you have also changed you perspective. If your dream is a two story building on the other side of the the wall, and the wall represents the struggle, the closer you get to the struggle the harder it will be to see your dream.
Many people I talk to dream of their wedding day and have dreamed or it for many years. Some of them are just starting out in their planning and they can clearly see their dream in front of them. Many of them are quite far down the path, planning their wedding, and their dream of one of the most awesome days of their life has been partially obscured by the wall of the struggle. This wall could be representative of stress in the planning. It could represent lack of support from friends and family. It could represent lack of participation or interest on the part of the groom. Whatever it is, it is keeping the bride from being able to see her dream. As a wedding vendor it is really my job to find the brides dream. Doing this helps me, but it also helps me help the bride. In understanding a brides dream wedding it helps me to be able to cater my services to help them reach their dream. Hopefully in understanding a brides dream, I can help her build her dream up, add another story on the building, to help her be able to see the dream over the wall once again.
History is full of examples of men and women who faced great difficulty in the pursuit of their dreams. Many of them lost friends and family members. Many faced great persecution, but they kept their eyes on their dream, and in the end it paid off proving without a doubt that "Those who stay will be champions." Mel Fisher was just such a man. I would encourage you to read his story, I have included a link below. I have read his story many times. It encourages me in the pursuit of my dreams, because it helps me to realize that I have not really struggled all that much yet. I have have not had to make that many sacrifices for my dreams.
Mel's Story
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